I stumbled across some really good advice today… The 80 / 20 Rule & Relationships:

Interesting quote from the movie ‘Why did I get married?’

In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or woman) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.

But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} that you WANT… more