Comments on: Seriously though, it’s not personal

By: bird

bird — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 17:11:05 +0000

I love you too Karen! Its funny you mentioned that thing about ego.

I’m trying very hard to be rid of it. It’s so booby-trapped with fear and pride and anxieties that get triggered so easily. I don’t want an ego anymore. It’s never made me feel good for longer than a day and the rest of the time I just either feel cringy or sad or bad or angry, or pompous, or just not satisfied. Its a horrible little greedy monster that I’m beginning to wonder has anything to do with who I really am at all.

By: Karen

Karen — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 14:17:51 +0000

You’re right. It isn’t personal with the other woman, at least not personal against you. It rises out of her total lack of self esteem. She has to lure a man (and from any woman will do) in order to validate her worth. That’s as sick as it gets. Just don’t be that woman. You need nothing that you don’t already possess within your skin. You are an amazing person. You should have an ego the size of Canada, but thank the stars you don’t. In fact, I sometimes think you don’t have enough ego! I love you dearly, my givy Livvy.

By: bird

bird — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 15:02:22 +0000

In reply to Bronnie. I figured as much :) it didn't really feel pointed at me.

By: Bronnie

Bronnie — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 23:28:41 +0000

Above all else my friend I love you, I am not kakking you out I am kakking those boys out for even daring, even thinking to hurt my precious, oldest and bestest kindred. I would not even presume to hold you responsible, to criticise. Please know I am not. All it is I am calling it like I see it and I respect you and your journey completely.

By: bird

bird — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 22:38:12 +0000

The original reply isn’t visible on the website at this time but were mailed.

The gist of what I wrote to Bronnie that I will share is that this post as a stand-alone would seem as if they have been absolved. But within the context of the website, I have written plenty about what happened with my ex husband months ago… and my recent ex, though I haven’t aired it on the website has not got off even remotely lightly. I also havent absolved myself. I take responsibility for my part, and that is the only part I can actually do anything about. That’s what Im doing out on this island.

Love you Bron 🙂