Comments on: My Maggie Mae https://yummy-wakame.com/weblog/2011/09/my-maggie-mae/ UX Designer + Full-Stack Dev Tue, 11 Oct 2016 04:47:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 By: } bird { https://yummy-wakame.com/weblog/2011/09/my-maggie-mae/#comment-9556 Fri, 23 Sep 2011 05:16:19 +0000 http://www.yummy-wakame.com/?p=12955#comment-9556 It’s so amazing you are bringing that up because its exactly what I was thinking when I wrote it… except that I feel Im not quite ready to write something like that truthfully with the other meaning. I’ll get there eventually. things… they come and go… Ive learnt to trust that Ive always had what I need when I needed it, to not grasp. But people… relationships are infinitely more precious than things. For me its the whole point of being alive. I have a very hard time letting go of people.

Some day I will get there – but I know that getting there will make me a very different person in so many ways. I will think fundamentally differently. Though I suspect I will live life with a lighter heart. A lot of changes need to come first, a lot of loss, and a lot of life experience to force my hand on the issue. Or… maybe some day it will just completely dawn on me and the old way of thinking just wont fly anymore. I hope that’s what happens. Getting to that point could be really painful, but once there… I suspect it will be a rather painless existence. To always accept what is, without fighting it.

hmm. just something about it though doesn’t gel. I guess since its not very authentic for who I am right now. Its hard to say.

I’m always curious to know what other people think about this. And then, thinking aside, how they really feel about it. Even if you haven’t commented before, feel free to chime in.

]]> By: chloe https://yummy-wakame.com/weblog/2011/09/my-maggie-mae/#comment-9555 Fri, 23 Sep 2011 04:37:34 +0000 http://www.yummy-wakame.com/?p=12955#comment-9555 oh, and congratulations on your new partner…very exciting!

]]> By: chloe https://yummy-wakame.com/weblog/2011/09/my-maggie-mae/#comment-9554 Fri, 23 Sep 2011 04:36:45 +0000 http://www.yummy-wakame.com/?p=12955#comment-9554 i am writing down your words of wisdom…
“In a way Im very aware of the fact that while she is mine for now, and maybe for many years, she will be somebody else’s some day, and so it seems to have been with all the things I’ve ever had… just as its always going to be. I’m just so happy we are in each others lives right now. I feel very blessed to have her.”
…it is true, most things are like that, but it resonates more with me when thinking about it in terms of the people in my life…past, present, future

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