{"id":2439,"date":"2005-04-01T23:09:00","date_gmt":"2005-04-02T03:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yummy-wakame.com\/archives\/2005\/04\/01\/\/"},"modified":"2016-10-11T04:48:12","modified_gmt":"2016-10-11T04:48:12","slug":"a-little-bit-of-charm-goes-a-long-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/2005\/04\/a-little-bit-of-charm-goes-a-long-way\/","title":{"rendered":"A little bit of charm goes a long way&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pretty much all my friends know that my favourite hobby is flirting for fun. I&#8217;m a shameless flirt. It&#8217;s soooo much fun. Especially when I&#8217;m faced with a challenge like I&#8217;m sitting across the room from the &#8216;target&#8217; (haha) so all I can use is body language, or I&#8217;m talking on the phone and unable to use body language so I have to think fast. I also love to watch people flirting, study their <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rabbit.org\/behavior\/body-language.html\" rel=\"external\">body&nbsp;language<\/a> and try to predict what will happen next. <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/pics\/flirting-2.jpg\" alt=\"flirting\" class=\"oldblogthumb\" \/>Inappropriate flirting is the funniest to watch, like at work when a colleague hits on the company&#8217;s biggest client, or when a guy aims for a girl way out of his league&#8230; sometimes succeeding.<\/p>\n<p>The stats say when you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} on your appearance and body-language, 38{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} on your style of speaking and only 7{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} on what you actually say. For me a guy impresses me a low 15{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} with appearance, 30{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} style of speaking and 55{a9f0d31f6175b3e4775e11a66c07db268fb74408d6095f6b46eeec420c0e9f62} what he actually says. I&#8217;m a bit weird like that and find brains sexy!<\/p>\n<p>If you can master the art of flirting, understand non-verbal communication, are able to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ianrowland.com\/ItemsToBuy\/ColdReading\/ColdReadingMain1.html\" rel=\"external\">cold&nbsp;read<\/a> people before you approach them or chat them up with no props or safety nets, well chances are you will go far in life with very little effort.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here&#8217;s a rather <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sirc.org\/publik\/flirt.html\" rel=\"external\">scientific guide to flirting<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pretty much all my friends know that my favourite hobby is flirting for fun. I&#8217;m a shameless flirt. It&#8217;s soooo much fun. Especially when I&#8217;m faced with a challenge like I&#8217;m sitting across the room from the &#8216;target&#8217; (haha) so all I can use is body language, or I&#8217;m talking on the phone and unable [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[212,408,232],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogalog","category-diary","category-sex"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2439"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2439\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}