{"id":4267,"date":"2009-10-17T00:48:37","date_gmt":"2009-10-17T04:48:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/?p=4267"},"modified":"2009-10-17T00:48:37","modified_gmt":"2009-10-17T04:48:37","slug":"the-daring-of-having-no-enemies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/2009\/10\/the-daring-of-having-no-enemies\/","title":{"rendered":"The Daring of Having No Enemies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Whether it&#8217;s ourselves, our lovers, bosses, children, a local Scrooge, or the political situation, it&#8217;s more daring and real not to shut anyone out of our hearts and not to make the other person into an enemy. If we begin to live like this, we&#8217;ll find that we actually can&#8217;t make things completely right or completely wrong anymore, because things are a lot more slippery and playful than that. Everything is ambiguous; everything is always shifting and changing, and there are many different takes on any given situation as there are people involved. Trying to find absolute rights and wrongs is a trick we play on ourselves to feel secure and comfortable.&#8221;<br \/>\n<em>~ <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Pocket-Pema-Chodron-Shambhala-Classics\/dp\/1590306511\">Pema Chodron<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Whether it&#8217;s ourselves, our lovers, bosses, children, a local Scrooge, or the political situation, it&#8217;s more daring and real not to shut anyone out of our hearts and not to make the other person into an enemy. If we begin to live like this, we&#8217;ll find that we actually can&#8217;t make things completely right or [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[213],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-food-for-thought"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4267","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4267"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4267\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yummy-wakame.com\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}